Sunday, 11 September 2016

Guru Call


On the recently passed Teachers’ Day, just before dinner, I dialed my teacher’s phone number. The phone was unanswered. I occupied my seat at the dining table with my eyes making a shift towards the cell-phone frequently – expecting a callback. My dining colleagues asked me why i was calling a teacher who had taught me over twenty years ago.

I retorted, “This is a modest way to pay tributes to the numerous days/events/things and people who have taught me lessons of life. Merely anyone who gives tutorials in a formal environment is not a teacher alone; on the contrary, every moment which inspires you with deeds or didactics is a teacher.”


“Why so many things when we have Google?” I was questioned.

Alas! i wished that they knew that a chasm lay wide agape between wisdom and information. Pensively looking at the cell-phone – eyes and ears impatient to get a ring on the phone – i chewed a few emotions along with the bite. Indebted to every instant of history, i narrated an experience when i was handling channel partners of our fuel stations.


With a task to improve sales, I thought of visiting our upcountry Retail Outlets during dusk hours. I reached a dimly lit outlet. The customer service attendants were not in uniform. They did not recognize me as I had taken over the assignment a few days ago. I enquired about sales, lighting and uniform. Apparently puzzled, they asked me whether I needed petrol or diesel. Skipping the answer, I cleverly asked about sales and products available. They were equally smart in evading the questions.

Disclosing my identity, I added authority to my questions. The attendants, surprisingly, were unfazed. The only reply they gave was “Ask Sardarji” referring to the outlet dealer sitting in the salesroom. I moved into the salesroom, introduced myself and greeted the gentleman – an elderly Sikh, about 70 years, white beard and sharp turban – sitting on an old wooden chair, perhaps more aged than the gentleman himself!


He acknowledged my greetings and offered me a chair without uttering a word, while remaining busy in scribbling something on a paper. I flooded him with a flurry of questions. His authorship seemed steadfast as he continued writing uninterruptedly. His silence loaded me with confusion - was he ignoring me or insulting me? I was still pondering when he finished his writing and stood up (I also stood) to pass on to me the paper. It was an apology letter for the fact that his service attendants were not in uniform and that the outlet was poorly illuminated. The letter also carried his promise for improvement.

The action left me bewildered. I asked him that we had not even conversed yet he had written the apology. He politely told me that he had been doing this every time the previous officer-in- charges would come to his outlet. “They”, he said, “only found mistakes here. I am used to this now.”


I was rendered speechless. Mustering some courage, I changed the topic and enquired after his family and the aged wooden chair! My query was a catalyst.  A saga unfolded, through his words.

The outlet sales had dipped after his young son - sitting at this very chair - was shot dead by separatist militants .He tearfully narrated the whole story and I gathered strands of strength and emotion from this septuagenarian. He was operating the outlet as a custodian to pass on to his grandchildren their deceased father’s legacy! He was an epitome of vim and vigor. We made several reciprocal discoveries thereafter; he earned some tips on sales from me and i learnt my lessons of energy from this suffered yet unshaken soul!

Sipping a glass of water, i floored an open question on the dining table, “Would you not call this as a great teaching moment? Should i deprive this gentleman’s credo of being called a towering inspiration? Should i not remember all such occasions and organisms everyday as an ode to the life’s ways of teaching?”

Some silent moments…..

I continued, “Do you not feel that every such being and bit breeds edification of each one of us? While every moment is a teacher, is today not the commemorative occasion to show deference to indomitable human spirit and ability of siphoning off and sharing wisdom out of anything – gentle or grave? Despite abundance of information today, shall we continue being students submitting to the sanity of a few? Or shall we become human islands not respecting any relationship of mutual learning?”

Before anyone spoke, the cell-phone rang; my teacher had called back! All eyes were open in disbelief thinking of the questions of probity raised.

Perhaps, a few had been answered by this callback!




Guru is a Hindi word referring to teacher.

20 comments:

  1. Good one thoroughly enjoyed the spirit of blog ...the teacher

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  2. Good one thoroughly enjoyed the spirit of blog ...the teacher

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  3. Mesmerizing read. ......kudos to all ur write - ups

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  4. Mesmerizing read. ......kudos to all ur write - ups

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    1. i chewed a few emotions along with the bite
      Beautiful lines.
      But Fluidity so so

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    2. i chewed a few emotions along with the bite
      Beautiful lines.
      But Fluidity so so

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    3. Nice and thoughtful experience Amit & beautifully penned.

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    4. Nice and thoughtful experience Amit & beautifully penned.

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    5. Thanks sir. I'm motivated...

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  5. Thanks folks.

    As a lifetime student, i note the observations on fluidity and shall attempt a more rhythmic writing....

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    1. Thanks. Unable to identify though...

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    2. Good One Sir! It reminded me of my teachers also whom I had forgotten!

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    3. Thanks. Glad that writing could cause some impact

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  6. Another remarkable offering! How eloquent!
    Your discernment in picking up these tiny occurrences of life simply shines through your writings!We all have had such incidents where some people have left a big mark on our lives. They are the people whose insights have had a direct or indirect influence on our wisdom and have mounded us into who we our today.
    Rightly said every such person and every such moment which has had a bearing on our outlook and personality is our guru and we are still students who are learning continuosly...,,,,,

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    1. True. We are students, as i also said -for the lifetime. My picking up tiny occurrences is an effort towards remaining a disciple of life....

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  7. เค†เคชเค•े เค‡เคธ เค†เคฒेเค– เค•ा เคเค•-เคเค• เคถเคฌ्เคฆ เคฎोเคคी เคนै เค…เคฎिเคค เคธเคฐ। เค†เคชเค•ी เคธोเคš เค”เคฐ เคญाเคตเคจा เคฆोเคจों เคนी เคธे เคชूเคฐा เค‡เคค्เคคेเฅžाเฅ˜ เคฐเค–เคคा เคนूँ เคฎैं। เฅ›िเคจ्เคฆเค—ी เคธเคฌเคธे เคฌเฅœी เค—ुเคฐु เคนै เค”เคฐ เคนเคฐ เคชเคฒ เค‡เคฎ्เคคेเคนाเคจ เคฒे เคฒेเค•เคฐ เคธिเค–ाเคคी เคฐเคนเคคी เคนै। เคœिเคธเคจे เค‰เคธเค•ी เคธเคค्เคคा เคธ्เคตीเค•ाเคฐ เค•ी, เค‰เคธी เคจे เคฏे เคจเคฆिเคฏा เคชाเคฐ เค•ी। เคฒเค—े เคฐเคนिเคฏे, เคฒिเค–เคคे เคฐเคนिเคฏे। เคนเคฎ เคคो เค†เคชเค•ो เคเคฎ् เคกी เค†เคˆ เค•े เคฆिเคจों เคธे เคนी เค…เคชเคจा เค—ुเคฐु เคฎाเคจเคคे เค† เคฐเคนे เคนै, เค”เคฐ เค…เคฌ เค‡เคธ เคฎाเคง्เคฏเคฎ เคธे เคนเคฎाเคฐी เค•्เคฒाเคธ เคซिเคฐ เคถुเคฐू เคนो เค—เคˆं, เคฏे เคฌเคนुเคค เค…เคš्เค›ा เคนुเค†।

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  8. Thanks Abhishek. Unable to type in Hindi. Yeh class nahi sirf zindagi ke tajurbon ko sanjha karney ki ek koshish hai. Jeewan ke saath saath yeh bhi jaari rahega. Aap protsaahan va sujhaav detey rahein

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  9. I am once again humbled by the responses received across medias other than this site. A few are placed here for permanence:

    Deepika : The story successfully built a ‘connect’. The story successfully built a ‘connect’.

    Shavikesh: Nicely written; felt some emotion in this one. While the end sounded a bit sermonizing, it still drove the point home.
    Cheers!

    Naresh: beautifully written. Rather.. every passing moment is a teacher.. only your receptors should be in working mode.. Great effort.

    Hardeep Brar: Great Amit. Keep writing !

    Richa: wonderful blog, I was totally lost into it.....

    Vijay: Well thought ๐Ÿ‘

    Sadhna: very well written. The writing is so vivid that i felt that i was sitting there.

    Aman: after reading this i remember i have touched feet of only two people in my whole life , 1st was my science teacher in 8th class , 2nd was my ustad ji at gym (a former wrestler) , coincidence was that both of them were my teachers, there is a movie "Dead poets society" its a masterpiece on student teacher relationship, do watch it in your free time
    Keep writing๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

    Jyotsna Bhatnagar: Thank you amit! For sharing Lessons to learn When life is a teacher! U write well!!!

    Kiran: Good effort, Amit. I read your articles and find them to be pretty grounded and very close to reality. My advice, ''Never lose sight of the ground reality". We are living in a world wherein we have started to believe in the superficiality of populism. Populism does not have anything to do with truth ... It's only a make believe. I am glad to see you expand your boundaries of thinking by way of this blog. Keep going and God bless....

    Manika : Enjoyed every bit of it ..Indeed the biggest teacher is life . Throughout our course of lives we r either learning or teaching .

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