Recently, one of my friends, now settled in US, was on a family holiday
in India. We met after several years in our hometown in Punjab. My teen aged son
has been fascinated about that country of dreams and loaded my friend with
queries. His son, an American citizen by birth, was equally inquisitive about his
parents’ motherland and posed many a difficult questions. At the peak of our
conversation, when I asked this young American about the good things in US, he
narrated the traffic discipline, cleanliness and social support system. At a
tender age of 13, he had an eye for detail. I got curious to know his findings
about India. And indeed, the moment I asked him what was the best thing he
found in India, he obliged by replying instantly “Jaggi Sweets”1
We all roared with laughter. The Indian blood had not lost its passion
for original flavour! My friend has always been a person with a discerning
palate. The legacy had traveled.
Tongue is a great carrier, we realized!
The young lad’s reply took us to the times when my friend would travel
abroad and carry a number of paranthas2,
frozen in India, and to be reheated in US to bring to life the aroma of
mother’s love. We migrated into the thought process of our children - each one
fascinated by something else in the other country. We talked about our efforts
in bequeathing a heritage, upholding identity as well as recognising diversity
amidst globalization. My son wants to be more American to accomplish his
dreams; his son wants to be more Indian to fortify his family. There is anguish
in this irony.
The labour pain is not solely ours. Since time immemorial, nations have
been trying to propagate their cultures within and outside. The sensitivity on
the subject is not new. UNESCO passed a Convention for safeguarding of the
Intangible Cultural Heritage many years ago. While there are several
stakeholders in preserving the tangible heritage – architecture, relics and
places, it is the intangible cultural heritage – oral expressions, language,
arts and crafts, rituals, traditions and practices, festivals and foods – that
travels on fluid grounds.
Lifestyles have transformed with the advent of technology. Social
systems have evolved to facilitate the preservation of intangible elements of lineage
- children are taught languages, expressions and rituals through demonstrative
videos; traditions and festivals are celebrated in all geographies though on
varying scales; music and dance is available online; packaged food or ready to eat
meals are available across the globe. The tangibility divide is getting erased.
My friend’s son knew more holy songs and festive practices than my
children. Deepawali3,
which is a two-three day affair for us, is a grand celebration with them. Their
emphasis is on the fact that the inheritors should know every minute detail about
their pedigree. I could not resist asking my friend that why did he want his
children to learn about Indian culture when they are settled abroad and
celebrating foreign festivals with as much as fervor as the Indian one’s? I
further queried, “Why are you turning a cultural philanthropist when it comes
to sharing of inheritance?”
An eerie silence prevailed, only to be busted by the Breaking News on
television.
The Indian Postal Department shall sell water bottles containing Gangaajal4. We looked at each
other. That was not mere bottling of water; that was packaging of a civilisation.
Thousands of Indians hitherto travelled miles to fill a container of Gangaajal and store it in their homes
for various holy reasons. The government was now becoming patron in facilitating
the preservation of a belief.
Water is physical; loyalty is ethereal. Besides the food, even faith was
now being beautifully draped and distributed. The cultural insecurity had been insured
with the Government imparting an impermeable seal of sanctity on water bottles.
Is the haulage of conviction
an individual choice or a national necessity? I wondered.
Is this patronage merely a
marketing mania? Or did the government need to start this because individuals –
me and you - were failing to transport the fabric of faith?
In such circumstances, am I justified
in asking questions of probity to my friend?
A call for tea interrupted my thoughts and punctuated our conversation.
It remained inconclusive thereafter as we spent some merry moments with families.
A few days later, I learnt that, instead of paranthas, my friend had preferred to carry with him two packaged
bottles of Gangaajal. Perhaps, it was
just another way to preserve, percolate and permeate the intangible legacy of values
- the emblem of people’s cultural identity!
I am left to conjecture the answers to my questions….
Any help?
- Jaggi Sweets is a famous sweet shop in Punjab
- Paranthas are stuffed Indian breads, fried in ghee.
- Deepawali is the most famous Indian festival
- Gangaajal refers to the water of river Ganges (Ganga, in Hindi), which besides being the lifeline of half of India, is worshipped as Mother River. Gangaajal is used for ablutions by many Hindus across the country.
Well written. Especially the bit abt intangible cultural heritage.
ReplyDeleteGovt's packaging of Gangajal is an attempt to profit out of our rituals which is not bad per se.
The article is good but it leaves one hanging. Maybe the 2nd part should have been a bit longer. Enjoyed reading it.
Well written. Especially the bit abt intangible cultural heritage.
ReplyDeleteGovt's packaging of Gangajal is an attempt to profit out of our rituals which is not bad per se.
The article is good but it leaves one hanging. Maybe the 2nd part should have been a bit longer. Enjoyed reading it.
Thanks. I do not intend to be judgemental on issues and attempt is only to stir the emotions and thought process. You have indeed added another dimension i.e. profit to the packaging part. Food for thought certainly. Though, when I mentioned this, it was to raise the issue "Is the haulage of conviction an individual choice or a national necessity?"
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Very well written !!! Just a thought that simple things like Paranthas and Gangajal represent ages of culture !! Probably the need for preserving Intangible Culture is equally important ... Very Nicely put Amit !!
ReplyDeleteWaiting for the next Entreee !!
Glad that there is someone who looks forward to the next entry. Motivated. Thanks!
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ReplyDeleteVery nice post. Living outside India and around the globe for the last ten years now, your post does indeed evoke a strange set of emotions. I dare say, these will be a bit different in content and intensity from those still in India. I guess there's an umblical cord which does not easily sever. On the other hand, I have seen Indians abroad more 'Indian' than those in India and others who want no connection (either they are ashamed of India's problems or cannot handle the pain of seperation?). However, there is a well known phenomena - the image of the country in the mind of an expat gets frozen is that of the country he or she left behind and they struggle to understand and accept the changes! This maybe both good and bad - bad for obvious reasons but sometimes good in preserving an identity. Visit Southall in London and you'll think you are in a Punjab of an era long gone by (at least I did not discern the presence of 'chitta' there!). Personally, after all the travels, I would like to go learn the Punjabi language (sadly, language poltics across both sides of the border harmed this rich language) and read about the rich literature and culture that I feel I should have known more about!
Modern science is now emphasising the importance of umbilical cords and there are agencies that enable their preservations. You have done me a great favour by highlighting this aspect. Nations have progressed only and only when they have revitalised their roots.
DeleteThanks for sharing the link Amit. It was indeed a pleasure reading your blog. The one I enjoyed the most was your first one, about your daughter and the habit of reading. Looking forward to keep up with your entries. Truly inspiring. Best wishes.
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Thanks for sharing the link Amit. It was indeed a pleasure reading your blog. The one I enjoyed the most was your first one, about your daughter and the habit of reading. Looking forward to keep up with your entries. Truly inspiring. Best wishes.
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Thanks Pradeep. The beginning was certainly turbulent but other experiences also occupy some space in the arena of thoughts. I hope to contribute to your literary appetite in future as well.
DeleteThanks Pradeep. The beginning was certainly turbulent but other experiences also occupy some space in the arena of thoughts. I hope to contribute to your literary appetite in future as well.
DeleteBetween last weekend and today, the readership has doubled. Thanks to one and all for continuous motivation.
ReplyDeleteBesides the comments on posts, I am humbled by the overwhelming response I received through emails and phone messages some of which I place below with gratitude to everyone :
Hardeep Brar: Amit, very well written. U r such an amazing writer. Where and why did u hide that amazing talent. Keep writing and I shall keep reading. Fantastico!
Sheetal Choudhary: Tongue is a great carrier.....
It has double meaning. Would have used Taste buds or Sweet Tooth or Only Taste Carries
Thoughtful writing -
But why should one go to Ganga for the holy benefit.
Good that mountain is going to Mohammad . Such are the convenient times.
We have made life convenient but lost its simplicity in the process:)
Molshree Lal: Awesome post! Loved reading it . Though I got the time to read it now only .
U have been doing a fabulous job on your blog . Next, I would want you stay write your own book.
That may be a compilation of the many wonderful real life experiences you have had .certainly , for sure, you should think about taking writing seriously
Shavikesh Goel: Hi Amit, Congrats on this initiative! i guess this was waiting in the wings for longer than envisaged... Good luck for future ones!!!
Ankit Mahajan: Bhaiya I read it though did not comment .. But we wait for more such blogs . Makes you think one level deeper than usual ;)
Hello Amit, I really liked the articles and now wondering why you started blogging so late. They talk about our daily lives so they attract the attention almost immediately. I relate 100% to packaging of culture....not only as NRI but also as Indian family living in India receiving and seeing off pardesi friends and family-jun.living abroad, it is a normal tendency to make extra efforts to expose your kids to your "own" culture. Also you know narrating anecdotes or incidents from india to your own kids
ReplyDeleteis same as having a trip to "dream land" or a fairy tale. My kids also know of a small shop narrated by me ofcourse ..almost the size of 9×9 as some place where you can shop almost anything. India is place of story tellers. We don't live there but while talking to our kids we ensure they can smell the aroma of a apne watan ki mitti.
Hello Amit, I really liked the articles and now wondering why you started blogging so late. They talk about our daily lives so they attract the attention almost immediately. I relate 100% to packaging of culture....not only as NRI but also as Indian family living in India receiving and seeing off pardesi friends and family-jun.living abroad, it is a normal tendency to make extra efforts to expose your kids to your "own" culture. Also you know narrating anecdotes or incidents from india to your own kids
ReplyDeleteis same as having a trip to "dream land" or a fairy tale. My kids also know of a small shop narrated by me ofcourse ..almost the size of 9×9 as some place where you can shop almost anything. India is place of story tellers. We don't live there but while talking to our kids we ensure they can smell the aroma of a apne watan ki mitti.
Soneeka, Your last line literally sinks deep in the heart! Shall continue to steer the wheel of thoughts on real issues...
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Aman..your article is realy beautiful n thought provoking. Staying in your country of birth or away is one's own choice. But you cant deny the fact of dual life while staying abroad. It is the insecurity of first generation that pushes kids to be more Indian there whereas growing in India is a way of life where no extra efforts needed to raise a child in one's own culture.I have been little lucky to have enjoyed both cultures n finally settled for my own. In fact, comparing East n West is simply wastage of time n energy. These are simply two different worlds or say planets. We are best in ours n they might be in theirs.Nobody can deny the feeling of alieniation n absence of sense of belonging to that world even after a life time stay. A hidden pain will keep on hurting there. I can recollect the pain n jealousy on faces of the people around me when I finally declared that I am leaving Canada for all in 2001 n going back to my motherland. You know living away from your motherland is infact a punishment awarded without any legal offense.That is the reason Indians there invest their best to raise their kids in Indian way..which is practically not possible. Finally as they say...
ReplyDeleteHar haseen manzir sei yaaro fasle kayam rakho..
Chand gar dharti pei utra dekh kar dar jaoge..
( plz excuse me for poor expression in English)
expression is important, not the language. The fact that you could relate this with your own experiences reinforces my belief in penning down the issues close to the ground...
Deletethanks for motivation
Nations may rise and fall but ideas can survive through millenniums and have no boundaries. The culture and traditions are nothing but ideas passed from generation to generation. A thought provoking article . One needs to peep inside and decide what he is looking for . Once you firm up that you will find it everywhere be it USA or India or any other country and that is eternal bliss
ReplyDeleteBro, Ideas have no boundaries, indeed and culture has no timelines. I am glad that the conversation with young children has ignited many a thoughts and beliefs....
ReplyDeleteI modestly acknowledge the contributions and enrichments through this medium. Thanks
I wonder how deeply you brood over the incidents! Everyone of us might have gone through the news of selling Gangajal by postal department. I had not taken this to be so thoughtful - tangible and intangible aspects behind this, as you have considered sir!
ReplyDeleteI wonder how deeply you brood over the incidents! Everyone of us might have gone through the news of selling Gangajal by postal department. I had not taken this to be so thoughtful - tangible and intangible aspects behind this, as you have considered sir!
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